I need step by step tutorials on every facet of making an RPG.

Welcome to the site. What you've asked is not one, but 7 questions. Each of those questions has an in-depth and possibly complicated answer and should be asked separately.

Now, before you go and open 7 more questions, please take the time to search through previous questions. I think every one of those has been asked (and likely answered) here many times before. Also, try google (you'll sometimes get better results from their search than the on-site) and Youtube.

Break your problem down into the smallest possible pieces (I want to place and control a character in game = how do I model a character, how do I place it in my scene, how do I add controls, etc) and work from there. When you arrive at a problem you can't solve, search around for it, then come here if you can't find a solution.

Good luck!

Ryan, just wanted to add: you've done a good job breaking down the task into the individual tasks that you need to learn. That's more than many people do. You just need to take the next step. As Chris points out, lots of tutorials out there, and lots of info already on this Answers site.