so i found out how to use cloth mode. but what i want to know is more complex

i dont think cloth is the right tool for the job. it seems like you are trying to use it for visual collision damage? look into mesh deformation

theres a lot of resources on google, heres one : https://stackoverflow.com/questions/30132101/mesh-filter-cosmetic-damage

ok fine since i cant figur it out from you im going to ask another question since i didnt mark it as answered. I make mods for the game beamng drive. Can i just merge the car model, skin and all scripting files onto unity and it cause damage or will there be errors