Shadows look bad or not show at all

So for 12 hours or so I struggled to solve this problem. Search a lot on google for solutions, tried adjusting things myself, reimported, deleted and upgraded to other versions of unity. None seemed to solve my problem. What i am trying to do is very simple, I have a room with some objects in it and 2 spotlights. One for the sun and one that is supposed to be a light bulb or something. Soft shadows didn't work at all, only hard shadows did some work, but i think its not perfect. Every object in the scene has cast and receive shadows ticked, i am using Universal Render Pipeline. I can provide any other detail needed to help me solve this problem. Thanks in advance. My settings in the lighting and the settings of the spotlight: And of course the room from the camera view: