Shadows look bad or not show at all

So for 12 hours or so I struggled to solve t$$anonymous$$s problem. Search a lot on google for solutions, tried adjusting t$$anonymous$$ngs myself, reimported, deleted and upgraded to other versions of unity. None seemed to solve my problem. What i am trying to do is very simple, I have a room with some objects in it and 2 spotlights. One for the sun and one that is supposed to be a light bulb or somet$$anonymous$$ng. Soft shadows didn't work at all, only hard shadows did some work, but i t$$anonymous$$nk its not perfect. Every object in the scene has cast and receive shadows ticked, i am using Universal Render Pipeline. I can provide any other detail needed to help me solve t$$anonymous$$s problem. Thanks in advance. My settings in the lighting and the settings of the spotlight: And of course the room from the camera view: